This is difficult to read….her pain is evident. I am glad she had good support from those around her–many times victims of abuse are accused of “leading on” their abuser–so they suffer twice…
Good on Mia for finding the strength to hold the family together. Some may find fault with her for not pressing criminal charges, but given Allen’s celebrity and the culture of rape/violence against women that almost guarantees she won’t be believed, I think it was wise of Mia not to press charges and put her daughter through yet more abuse. As Dylan states, she was repeatedly questioned about the abuse, having to tell the story over and over and over again…trying to find some way to get her to flub up.
And for those who don’t know what “gaslight” means…it’s a term used to describe the most despicable psychological games to throw someone off and make them think they are crazy. An example: a woman places her keys on the table next to the door when she comes home. The keys are not there when she goes to leave. She looks all over and finds them in the refrigerator. The next time, they’re in the bathroom cabinet. This goes on until she thinks she is truly “losing it”….when all the time it’s been her psycho husband playing mind games with her. If you need more of an example, see the film Gaslight.
The hardest part to read is her account of cutting herself…sadly, this seems to be standard for those abused who don’t have any other outlet to express their pain.
Here’s to you, Dylan, for the courage to come forward because you already know the flaming will come next from those defending Allen. And here’s to your mama….God Bless the mothers of the world.
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