I was able to watch an episode of crime scene evidence and it featured Rodney Alcala, the serial rapist and murderer, who was able to get access to his victims by using his photography skills to lure them away from safety (in crowds or cities) to secluded areas where he raped and murdered them.

One of the things he did was to bite his victims. This was one of the facts of evidence that linked him to murders all over the United States. He continually traveled to elude police. This was in the days before the computer network allowed police in different states to see evidence that linked perpetrators. It is really stunning the good detective work that went into nailing this sadistic bastard before the police had the computer tools of networking.

I couldn’t find the exact video of what I watched on the TV, so just go on youtube and put in dating game and his name and it should come up. Alcala was attractive and charming and this allowed him to get away with his crimes. Psychopaths can come in attractive packages and know exactly what to say to get their victims to put down their guard.

Fortunately for at least one woman, the Dating Game woman, she listened to her instincts when she felt the evil in this man and called an employee with the production of the show and told her that the guy was creeping her out and she wasn’t going to go out with him. 

Women need to stop apologizing when someone creeps them out and they put a barrier around themselves to give themselves safe space.  People want to always make the woman feel guilty for protecting herself and saying someone is making them uncomfortable.

Alcala liked to bite his victims, and this brought back a memory of my ex biting me. It left a permanent mark that unfortunately looks like a hickey. It’s embarrassing because I’m sure people look at it and think I must have had a wild night….

So I searched bites and rape in youtube, and found this video:

The comment section was unbelievable. The people were blaming her and calling her a liar. There was evidence that he had raped her while she slept on video and the rape apologists still didn’t believe her.

If you recall, the Guardian Ad Litem appointed to the custody hearing of my ex and I, spent fifteen minutes with my children and proclaimed “there’s a lot of guilt in that household”. Well, a good mother is going to make her children feel guilty for doing something wrong. That is how you instill morals. 

So this evil woman ignored me when I told her that my ex was having sex with me while I slept. She also ignored three other cases of the father abusing the mother in the five cases that I researched. 

And this is why women don’t come forward. They are already suffering because they were violated by the man who was supposed to be their protector, and then they are abused again by evil women who call them liars.

I do believe raping women while they sleep is a part of the secret society “religion”. This woman in the video was probably married to a cult member and didn’t know it. She was likely drugged. I wonder now if I was drugged, as well. They are a network and they would likely share the information of what drugs to use to keep her asleep so she won’t wake up. 

I only woke up in two of the times that my ex did it to me. One morning, my ex said to me “You didn’t open your legs for me last night…” It sent chills down my spine. I didn’t recall a thing. No memory of it at all. 

That was the day that I decided that I had to get out of this marriage.

I hope by posting this that any woman who is being raped by her spouse that she is not alone. I know of at least two other women this has happened to in my hometown. Both men were part of the secret society.